Déménager à l’étranger a un effet direct sur votre état mental. Pour la plupart des expatriés, cet état peut fluctuer de temps à autre : à un moment donné, vous êtes confiant et vous vous sentez pleinement à l’aise et heureux de la vie que vous menez, et à un autre moment, votre maison, vos amis et votre famille ou tout simplement ce plat typique que vous aimez vous manquent. Chez certaines personnes, cela peut provoquer du stress ou de l’anxiété.
Dans notre vocabulaire quotidien, nous utilisons souvent les termes « anxieux » et « stressé » comme des synonymes. Bien que de nombreux symptômes soient présents dans les deux diagnostics, il s’agit en fait de deux concepts dont l’origine et le fonctionnement sont très différents.
Qu’est-ce que le stress et l’anxiété ?
L’anxiété est un indicateur qui alerte notre système psychologique qu’il y a quelque chose dans notre façon de vivre qui ne fonctionne pas comme nous le voudrions ou comme cela devrait être : un travail peu gratifiant, une relation qui ne fonctionne pas, un choix que nous n’aimons pas ? Il s’agit d’une réaction psychologique qui apparaît souvent lorsque nous refoulons ou ignorons (consciemment ou inconsciemment) les aspects qui nous dérangent, ou que nous n’agissons pas pour l’améliorer.
However, many times we do not understand what is behind anxiety. This happens because there is a whole series of beliefs that make some kind of internal screen that blocks our visibility.
Thus, we could understand anxiety as the last way that our psychological system must attend to it. « Either you take care of me the good way or you will have to take care of me the bad way. »
Stress on the other hand, is a reaction of the exhaustion of our psychological system, which is produced by maintaining too long a state of hyperactivation to face particularly demanding situations. It can happen either because we do not have enough time to rest and defuse all the tension, or because we do not have enough resources to deal with the situation.
In an automotive metaphor, it would be like wanting to climb a mountain pass always in first gear. While the first gear is the one that powers very strongly forward, if we keep driving in it too much, we will burn the engine.
Thus, generally, it is easier to detect the origin of stress than that of anxiety.
Let’s look at some of the main differences between anxiety and stress, which will allow you to identify them and know how to address them:
The main emotions
- In anxiety, the fundamental emotion is fear and, if not addressed correctly, it expands vertiginously through the different areas of the person’s life. When it is advanced, it even reaches the paradoxical state of fear of fear. There are several anxiety disorders: generalized anxiety disorder, phobias, panic attack disorder, agoraphobia … In all of them, the common denominator is this emotion.
- Stress, on the other hand, is fundamentally governed by worry and frustration, and fear is usually more diffuse or generic.
In the mind
- Anxiety is usually more focused on the future, on everything negative that can happen, since it is nourished by the anticipation of situations with a markedly negative or catastrophic tone. This tends to make us avoid more and more situations, which in turn further increases fear, and therefore anxiety.
- Stress tends to be more focused on the present, since the unapproachable situation is happening right now and there is a feeling that we cannot deal with the demands it imposes on us.
- Anxiety instead depends more on internal factors, thoughts and emotions that come from the anticipation of the person.
- Although it is not always easy to distinguish between external and internal factors since they usually feed each other, stress is usually caused by external factors, that is, factors beyond our control.
- Anxiety is often tremendously hard and disabling, but also highly secure at the level of physical health. In the middle of a panic attack, we may have the impression that we are going to die of a heart attack. On the other hand, if they do an electrocardiogram at that time, it comes out perfect.
- Stresscan have more dangerous physical implications since it activates the autonomic nervous system, the immune system, the cardiovascular system, the hypothalamic-adrenal axis, and metabolism. Stress is a neuro-immuno-endocrine response, influenced by biological, cognitive, environmental, and personality factors.
How can we address stress and anxiety?
Stress usually goes away when the stressful situation goes away, but anxiety can persist longer. If symptoms persist, it would be necessary to consult a coach or psychologist.
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